2 weks oops

Wow I didn't even realize it has been two weeks since I last posted. ;-)

Things have been ok. I have lost 1.5, I'll have to update my sidebar. Diet has been hard, haven't always made great choices. Been getting takeaways too much cause I have been so busy. My excersize has been non existant. I have had so much to do and so busy that I have been neglecting myself totally. Yesterday, I got on the treadmill again. Today I am going for a hike with the kids. So I still keep trying.

We are headed to Christchurch in 3 weeks. Things with sis in law are still BAD. I truly hope she doesn't ruin my whole time. She is know to do that. My wedding night, Craig and I went with her and her partner to Kaikoura for the night. (we did not have money or time for a honeymoon) We arrived at 5, went had dinner where SHE wanted to go and when we got back, (she was four months pregnant at the time) Her and her partner got into a fist fight. HE took off and I spent from 630 until midnight consoling her, trying to help her ect... He finally came back and she was like ok everything is fine. Craig had already gone to bed. Yeah, fun wedding night.

I really just don't know how to handle her. What I think I am going to do is just pretend like nothing is wrong, and if she starts a confrontation(she will because she is the QUEEN of confrontation and attention) I will say "we are only here for two weeks, I am NOT going to do this with you now."

There is so much bad blood between us. When Craig and I got married, she really helped heaps. We spent a whole day finding a wedding dress for me. They had to do alterations on it and it wasn't to be ready til Thursday night at 5pm. The store closed at 530pm. The next day we were getting married at 11am and it was Goood Friday so the shopp was closed. The shoppe was in Papanui which was about 40 minutes from Craig's house. She called me at 415pm and said, I don't have time to take you to get your dress right now, I am too busy. I said. fine I'll go get someone else to take me. I had no family there, no traditional wedding stuff, no cake, no music, just the dress, it was very important to me on MY wedding day. I got upset cause I thought I wasn't going to have it. She told everyone I was a selfish bitch because I demaned her to get me(which I DID NOT) and go get the dress. Not to mention that I worked several shifts(25 hours total) for her in the store she managed FOR NO PAY (she got the pay) to thank her for all she did. But everyone in NZ thinks I am the bitch. Ughhhhhhhhhhh
The stories like that just go on and on.

She HATES anyone else haing any attention.She us coming from the states for two weeks is REALLY pissing her off. HEr mum meeting her grandkids for the first time is taking away from her kids. So she is building and building her anger at me plus the whole "I told her my opinion about her using abortions for birth control" and now she won't talk to me., so yeah she is a TIME bomb waiting to explode on me. and MAN has the thought of this stress been causing me to EAT.

Anyway, good times , yeah good times. as I always say. It is most frustrating because we are spending 12,000US for this trip(we have been saving for three years)and we haven't taken any vacay in three years and it would REALLY suck if it is a stressfest.

As you can see, I have been overly stressing about this situation, which is why I haven't posted much.

If I don't have soemthing nice to say, don't say anything at all. ;-)

But I said it anyway, cause it is my blog and I needed to get it out of my mind and leave it there. so, internet.. heres my stress you can have it. I hope this works ;-)